To Whom Do I Owe
It is said that for anything to be gained, something of equal value must be lost in exchange. Whether you believe this to be absolutely true in all scenarios does not necessarily mean that you do not use this philosophy in everyday life. People, in general, believe that effort spent will, in time, allow them to reap the rewards. People commit many acts based on similar idealist notions and often base some of their biggest decisions on the quixotic teachings of a religious or spiritual guidance or according to some philosophical canon. Ethics can be considered an exploration of this side of human activity to the fullest degree. If there is indeed a higher good; how one can come to better know the good; and how the good can help resolve the many issues s/he may face throughout his/her life, all of these issues are part of the journey of meditation in ethics. However, are these idealist notions of a higher good something that should be a decisive agent in our lives?
When someone decided to cheat or lie, are they conscious of the deceitful nature of their actions? Are they ignoring a desire that lives within them, that yearns to be truthful, despite the gut feeling that it may be the “right thing to do”? Are they paying no attention to this hypothetical gesture of hesitation towards the socially vilified act of lying? If it is the former, they believe what they are doing is bad, but choose to commit the act regardless. (This may be due to the possibility of this heinous act resulting in a more genuine and altruistic effect.) If it is the latter, they refuse to believe in the idea that good and bad can be conjoined with a behavior.
Consider the possibility of someone being involved in a dilemma in which they truly want to help someone by being honest but may, in turn, cause physical or emotional pain to that very person. In other words, do I follow my belief that I should be honest with my friends despite the almost assured chance of making them unhappy or do I allow them to continue living without knowing the truth that is absolutely relevant to their interests? Does my idealistic subscription to a belief that values genuineness grant me the right to cause someone pain and suffering?
To return to a previous point, even this example can be argued to nullity. To recap: I may follow my belief that honesty is best or I may allow my friend to continue being happily ignorant; and the question I raised is whether I can use the real emotional states of a person as a means to fulfill the demands of my beliefs. However, is the dilemma here actually that I find that both causing harm to someone and lying to someone are both void of moral worth. Can all of our real-life decisions be based only on ethical arguments? If so, how can we act in any way without rejecting some form of a higher good? Is this not the dilemma that is at the root of ethical debate?